Happy and Husband... See again.
If it is a day of celebration, because of a rarity, I agree, we can celebrate, for a husband to be happy, he should change the relationship called husband.
Take a minute to think, this would come on only with, a lot of sacrifice, bearing a still silence, and finally a realisation, that happiness is not with the other.
If u can think of the other as a friend, easy, think of the other as a stranger, difficult but ok.
See the other as a second cousin, but best is a family friend.
With growing age, the other seems like a daughter, or with the looks, a beautiful aunt.
It is then, that the husband could have happiness, no expectations, little or no rules, happiness is limitless.
Whoever came up with this word husband, a spillover from animal husbandry.
Expanded.... Husbandry is control and management of...
Who likes to be controlled and managed ?
Maybe with time, the term would die a natural death, and other ways of expression would surface, with dignity and respect. ( father of the child)
Till then happy.... Yes, with the partner as a friend.
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